JUDGE NOT (putting others on the cross), THAT YE BE NOT JUDGED (destroyed by that same cross you put others on). FOR WITH WHAT JUDGMENT YE JUDGE (either taking up the cross yourself or putting others on it), YE SHALL BE JUDGED (destroyed or made victorious): AND WITH WHAT MEASURE YE METE (either an evil inflictor or a loving absorber of blows), IT SHALL BE MEASURED TO YOU AGAIN (destroyed or made the victor by your own actions). Matt 7:1-2.  

Satan accused, judged and executed Jesus. Satan was destroyed by his own judgment of Jesus. Heb 2:14. Jesus, by taking up the same cross became the victor.  

When you accuse and judge someone, anyone, you are being destroyed by your own judgment.  

When you absorb the blame and the blows of others without retaliation or revenge, you become the victor.  

Take up the cross daily and be willing to be crucified with Christ. This is the only way to victory!

If Satan had known what he was doing, destroying himself, he never would have judged and crucified the Lord of glory. 1 Cor 2:6-8.  

Hating the enemies does not destroy the evil in them.  Loving them does.